• Jillian • 23 • PA • Ain’t that a kick in the head
I miss new love and the spark it has. This will most definitely get me into trouble
Somebody: If you have trouble remembering things use sticky notes! set an alarm! Make a schedule on a whiteboard, it all works!
My adhd brain: You don’t need to pay any more attention to that alarm or the sticky note anymore, it’s not new. It’s part of the environment and is just there because. There is nothing standout or noticeable about it so you don’t need to read it.
I have these two neighbours and they’re married and they gotta be like in their late 30s and I’m making dinner and I look out the window and they’re running around outside in their pajamas and bare feet with water pistols soaking eachother and laughing so loud it made me realise I’m wasting so much time trying to make relationships perfect when all that’s really needed is someone who will laugh with me for the rest of my life
“you deserve connections that don’t require you to walk on eggshells to get a point across. you deserve connections that don’t require you to sacrifice your peace just to protect feelings or egos. you deserve connections that don’t require you to distance your self, from yourself.”
— iambrillyant
I prefer intimate conversations, where intelligence is in there as well. Where you can talk about things, such as sex, politics, spirituality, music, art, pain, healing and so on. But it takes an open mind and heart to have that type of communication.
